In general people are usually quite happy talking to friends, family, work colleagues and often strangers. However the moment many individuals are asked to stand up in front of more than a few people at a time they begin to tremble or they just don’t seem to be able to say anything coherent. This is nothing to be ashamed of. The whole idea of working with hypnosis on these issues is to empower the person to feel confident enough to speak in public at anytime whether it is with just one person or with a large group of people.
What happens to us during our school years often has major implications on how confident we are in later life. We all know what a difference strong supportive parents and teachers can make to a child in his or her formative years. However many adults still remember their childhood with at the very least mild distaste and at the worst with absolute terror. Often the educational system is to blame with teachers and pupils alike ridiculing a child because they are either shy or unable to understand a certain subject matter. Children are frequently told at school and at home that they are stupid and useless at maths, English, languages and many other subjects. These hurtful words stick and can really affect the child both when they are growing up and later as an adult. Confidence can be zapped away in an instant.
Groups of children commonly gang together to bully one particular child causing that child to become introverted, lost and alone. Sometimes it is a question of be bullied or become the bully, frightened children often bully others because they themselves are going through difficult times. All of these situations can make children and adults feel very vulnerable and alone. It is not surprising therefore that often being asked to speak in public can make someone tremble in their boots as they remember situations in the past where they have been ridiculed.
Sometimes these issues go even deeper and a person will regress into a past life where they see themselves being publicly humiliated by being executed or tortured. This can bring up feelings of deep fear and anger at what had happened. I previously worked with a client who was regressed by me to a time when she was shackled in the stocks. A public gathering shouted at her whilst pelting her with rotting vegetation and sewage. Any of these scenes will bring up deep emotions of fear and shame for the client.
I use a combination of Hypnotherapy, ThetaHealing™, NLP and sometimes Past Life Therapy to erase these fears and to build up the client’s confidence. I see people in London Harley Street and in Central Bristol. All my sessions are 90 minutes.
When you book your appointment you may request the use of a specific therapy, or you may prefer a combination of different healing methods to help you to resolve whatever is causing your physical or emotional pain.
Most of my therapy sessions last 90 minutes in London Harley Street. I am also happy to work with clients on the telephone.
FREE 15 Minute Consultation
It’s really important that you’re completely happy with your choice of hypnotherapist or therapy. I offer a free initial telephone conversation of up to 15 minutes,which is an opportunity for you to find out more about my approach, and ask any questions. Please ring me on 020 339 72513 or 07769 682383. I can also be contacted by email or click here to fill in the contact form.